Month: February 2019

Episode 47: Conversations with a Transexual Escort #TransIsBeautiful

Episode 47: Conversations with a Transexual Escort #TransIsBeautiful

On this episode we interview the gorgeous transexual escort from San Diego, CA TS Jane. Jane identifies as transgender female, Pronouns (She/Her/Hers). She advocates and champions trans rights and inclusion, as well as being a community organizer serving as Vice President of SWOP USA. 

Amber Ashton

Femme Fatale February 20, 2019

What's In The News:

From The Washington Examiner – Feb 4, 2019: Pot legalization activist turns sights on prostitution, ‘comes out’ as client

  • The longtime leader of the Marijuana Policy Project says that after helping legalize pot in 10 states, he’s decided to spearhead a national push to legalize prostitution.
  • Prostitution is against the law in all 50 states, with the exception of some Nevada counties.
  • Rob Kampia, a savvy political campaigner who grew the MPP from a low-profile nonprofit organization into a well-funded vehicle for designing state political campaigns, “came out” in an interview with the Washington Examiner as a someone who has paid for sex himself.
  • “It’s important, like the gay rights movement. … If everyone knows someone who is gay, maybe being gay shouldn’t be a hassle or a crime,” Kampia said. “With this, anyone who has been engaged in paid sex, on the provider or the client side, should speak up and out themselves. I just outed myself to a reporter for the first time here.”
  • Kampia said he paid for sex rarely, and that “the reason I admitted this to you right now is that it’s extremely hard to find professional men to admit to a reporter that they paid for sex, because usually their family or their girlfriend aren’t going to like to hear it.”
  • According to Kampia, an unmarried political libertarian who left MPP in 2017, many of the well-heeled donors who backed marijuana legalization also support Decriminalize Sex Work, a new national advocacy group that recently launched.
  • Decriminalize Sex Work currently has four staffers, including Kampia. The group’s communications director, comedian Kaytlin Bailey, said in an interview that she’s been a sex worker during two periods of her life, and she applauded Kampia for outing himself as a client of prostitutes.
  • “It’s so important to show people that these are not monsters. These are not crazy, creepy people who you would never want to be associated with,” she said. “Perfectly normal men purchase sex. … I can speak with authority.”
  • “Our goal is not to teach our allies not to be dumb,” Kampia said. “It is working with well-meaning legislators and activists on specific bills in specific states and winning. With marijuana, we have the playbook.”
  • When successfully pushing for state legalization of marijuana, MPP branded the effort in simple terms as a bid to “regulate marijuana like alcohol.” For prostitution, he intends to push the message of “making sex legal.”
  • “‘Making sex legal’ is a punchline and it’s actually more powerful than regulating marijuana like alcohol. It’s more powerful because about half of American adults have smoked pot, but almost 100 percent have had sex,” he said.
  • But Kampia, who favors both legal brothels and the legalization of independent-contractor sex work, faces strident opposition to his claim that legalization would improve sex worker well-being.
  • “I’m so sad I can hardly stand it right now,” said Lori Paul, spokeswoman for Breaking Free, a group that opposes prostitution, citing exploitation and violence against sex workers. “They don’t see the faces that come in here broken.”
  • “No woman really wants to do this,” Paul said. “This is something where she is marginalized and someone else is trying to screw her for their own pleasure, physically or financially.”

Fan Questions & Feedback:

From Instagram DM

Hey girls! Thank you for the amazing advice you’ve given through the podcast.

I wanted to ask you a question about websites. Unfortunately, I purchased Squarespace for a year at a discount because I’m a student.

Since then I have changed the email on the account but I’m afraid that if I use it, it will become an issue in reference to my personal identity.

I hate that I didn’t build my own site first but now I feel stuck. Should I keep the site and try to make it work before the year is up or should I let it all go and start from scratch?


Via Email

Hey ladies, I’ve been binge listening to your podcast. Thank you for providing so much info. I’ve been camming for a few years and have only met a customer (long time regular) in person once (him and his wife paid $1500 for a night out at casino- nothing sexual happened and they paid for my own suite separate from theirs- we had a blast and plan to do it again). There are other customers who want to meet, but they are clingy/obsessive types and I fear their obsession would escalate.
Anyway, I’ve been doing research on becoming a companion on the side because camming is isolating.
My fears holding me back are somehow getting arrested or placing myself in dangerous situations. The thought of being alone with a stranger is terrifying. In my last relationship, I left because one day he physically abused me, took my phone and would not let me leave. If a boyfriend could do that; anyone can.
Sorry this is getting long. My point is that I’m hoping I can work with you ladies to connect me with trusted clients; and would like to know more about how that would work.
Thank you

Episode 46: Conversations with an International Escort (Tips on Traveling the World as a Companion)

Episode 46: Conversations with an International Escort (Tips on Traveling the World as a Companion)

Today we are going to be interviewing a beautiful international companion and get some tips about traveling around the world. Amber Ashton is an elite London based companion specialising in extended dates and adventures. She describes herself as an Oxford educated polyglot and self confessed all around good time girl….THE perfect playmate for any encounter.

Victoria Evans

Femme Fatale February 13, 2019

What's In The News:

From New York Times, Feb 9, 2019: How OnlyFans Changed Sex Work Forever

  • OnlyFans has put X-rated entertainment in the hands of its entertainers. Call it the paywall of porn.
  • Every day, hundreds of men pay women like Dannii Harwood to enact their sexual fantasies and boost their self-esteem. Sometimes her clothes come off. Sometimes she dresses up as a nurse or a dominatrix.
  • If a guy is a regular customer, she likely knows his birthday, the names of his children and his pets — even when to call after a surgical procedure.
  • He may pay her to help him achieve an orgasm, though she is not a prostitute. He may purchase erotic videos from her, though she is not a porn star.
  • Ms. Harwood is one of the top earners on OnlyFans, where subscribers pay models a fee, between $5 to $20 a month, to imagery too racy for Instagram. With that access, subscribers can also direct message and “tip” to get pictures or videos created on demand, according to their sexual tastes.
  • The most popular OnlyFans personality is Jem Wolfie, of Perth, Australia.
  • According to OnlyFans, she has 10,000 subscribers who pay $10 a month for access to a feed in which she shows off her Kardashianesque proportions, squatting in really tight leggings and squeezing her breasts together, strategically covering her nipples. It doesn’t go much further than that.
  • “Basically, OnlyFans is online go-go dancing,” said Matthew Camp, a 34-year-old model on the men’s side who broke into the business a decade ago.
  • With a G-string and a strobe light, he could make as much as $1,000 on a good night.
  • When Camp first signed up on onlyfans, weeks often went by without him posting a single picture or video. He didn’t show a full penetrative sex clip for the first nine months, yet he still regularly took home more than $10,000 a month.
  • “Tumblr was filled with the most extreme sexual experiences you could see,” he said. “And I think a lot of people were turned off by that. It’s not what they’re looking for. They want more intimate experiences. They want a boyfriend experience. They want to fantasize about someone that they want to have sex with and not feel disgusted by it.”
  • The company’s chief executive, Mr. Stokely is eager to take OnlyFans out of the pornography niche and make it a platform for all sorts of influencers and audiences.
  • One hurdle is that there is no iPhone app. The platform as it exists now likely runs afoul of Apple’s restrictions on “overtly sexual or pornographic material.” And even if Apple did allow an OnlyFans app, the fees — 30 percent — would certainly be a problem, Mr. Stokely said. He would have to pass along those expenses to performers.
  • Technical problems on OnlyFans also threaten its longevity and help explain why synonymous sites, such as JustForFans, have managed to siphon off considerable numbers of performers and revenue.
  • Still, performers who have been with OnlyFans for more than a year and earn at least $8,000 a month in subscription revenue, can’t muster serious complaints.

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Fan Questions & Feedback:

Via: Email

Hello ladies I’m a big & supporter of the show.

So I want to first start off with saying thank you for all the hard work you do to produce such a great show, not only for our community but in the regular world also. THANK YOU

Now for my question,

I’m a well established & successful traveling companion, so I am never in one city very long which makes life very exciting and for the most part, I do very well in the cities I travel too.

The city I live in is the capital yet for some reason so slow, so slow that the thought of not touring is a scary one. I know there is money to be made here but I can’t seem to figure it out.

In the next year I will be focusing on my domination and fetish side, which I think will help because it’s not a common thing in this industry.

There are hardly any ladies that tour my home base, and there are only a couple of ladies that live/work here that are reputable.

In the next 2 years I want to slow for only a few years(family reasons) but I need help on how I become the “go to lady” for the gentleman that live and visit here.

I think about this all the time, so now I’m reaching out for advice.

Thank you for your time I can’t wait to hear back from you.

XOXO


Via: Email

Hi Ladies, I love your podcast!

A new fav for me. I’ve been binging. I am currently saving for a car so I would have to Uber or Lyft to an appointment. I want to make sure I’m safe. I would like to be as discreet as possible so I don’t want to really advertise on Ig or anything and I know on the podcast you offer this exclusivity. I’m a Realtor and single mom so that’s why I don’t want to advertise largely

I have a few questions:

  1. When you screen are you screening for stds and background check and are checkbooks being screened too? Do I get myself screened? Do me and the client exchange this information upon setting up an appointment? Does this cost? And, if so how much?
  2. I want to be added to the directory list. How does getting started work?
  3. Are you ladies running a escort service or just giving tips? I’m assuming your running a business if you can match ladies with clients but idk
  4. Will I be successful not advertising?
  5. Is the number you give on the podcast how to contact you personally?
  6. I believe it was Episode 33 where there was a directory just for Ladies in our line of work. I couldn’t catch the spelling. Does it cost to advertise?

I do lashes & Real Estate

Thank you for taking the time to answer my questions 😘

Episode 45: How to Retire Rich as a Companion: Conversations with a Retired Sugarbaby

Episode 45: How to Retire Rich as a Companion: Conversations with a Retired Sugar Baby

Retiring rich (or at least comfortable) should be every companion’s goal. On this episode we interview Anna Marie, a retired sugar baby turned trophy wife, from Seattle, WA. 

Remington Black

Femme Fatale February 5, 2019

What's In The News:

From NBC’s 11alive.com – Feb 1, 2019: Super Bowl sex trafficking sting now up to 40 arrests in Atlanta 

  • Investigators said Friday 40 people have now been arrested for sex trafficking in the metro Atlanta area as part of crackdown during Super Bowl week.
  • Four people have been recovered: two adults and two juveniles, Homeland Security spokesperson Brian Cox said.
  • With the Super Bowl in town, DHS is leading the human trafficking investigation to help recover more people affected by the crime.
  • Organizations are also stepping in to fight back against sex trafficking. Save Our Adolescents from Prostitution spent the weekend passing out fliers with the names and photos of 16 girls that are missing.
  • “Atlanta is one of the top cities for sex trafficking of children in the United States,” the group’s website said. “With the Super Bowl coming in February 2019, we need your help to rescue these missing kids.”
  • According to the Hall County Sheriff’s Office, 18 year old, Jesse Brian Quintanilla has been arrested for unlawful interference with child custody after he left with a 16-year-old girl seen in the posters. There is no indication, at this point, that she was involved in any form of human trafficking.
  • Airports and hotels are vulnerable spots for human trafficking. Delta Air Lines trains its employees to spot signs and to report their findings to a national hotline that deals with human trafficking.
  • “It is not our role to be law enforcement,” Kimberly Duran of Delta explained. “But we can make those observations and share anything that needs to be reported.”

Fan Questions & Feedback:

From: Twitter (you can follow us on twitter @TSEGPODCAST)

Hey Vivian and Chantel I wanna just say you guys have been very fundamental in me becoming a companion. I have began my process currently building my website, booked a professional photoshoot and currently establishing my brand, and building infrastructure before launching (hopefully March). Without your guys feedback on your podcast (I’m a proud supporter on patreon) it has given be sooooooooooo much help.

As a girl who studied business administration I relate so much to how you approach this business.  I had to take out some old university books to help with my foundation but there are still a lot of things newbies won’t know, and you have assisted with that. I also have been reading books from authors such Amanda Brooks (The Internet Escort’s Handbook series), and that has also assisted me.

As an ebony companion there are things honestly only and fellow ebony companion could answer. Here are my questions:

  1. When you are with a provider how do you deal with you lancome teint idole ultra all over sheets?
  2. When your staying over night how do you deal with your hair?
  3. I have dreadlocks but I intend to cover ,based on the image/brand i want portray I don’t think my market would like it? What’s your opinion on the hair
  4. After you receive the information from screening what are tips you guys recommend in processing this data?

 

Girls please just continue your hard work …. You guys are very inspiring !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ps … i know you guys speak about the hair and screening but i didn’t get the answers I was looking for that why i decided to message and ask


From Instagram DM’s

Salut!
I hope you had a wonderful start into the new year!
I’m writing because I’ve got one quick etiquette question and I’ll be very thankful if you’d got the time to answer it.
A college of mine introduced me to one of her regular friends, they know each other for 15yrs.
She arranged our meeting and everything was very nice.

He now wants to see me again.
So my question is if I should ask/tell the lady who introduced us?

Thank you for your wonderful podcast and all the work you do!

X from Berlin