Episodes
Episode 08: How To Market Yourself to Affluent Clients (Advice From a Branding Strategist)
Have you ever wondered how to gain more affluent clients? On this episode we get the scoop from Paloma Montecarlo, a marketing and brand strategist specializing in the escort world! Plus an update on FOSTA and more candid conversations from your two favorite ladies.
Femme Fatale: Elise Jolie
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Episode 07: Thou Shalt Pay Your Taxes: Advise From A Companion Tax Professional
It’s tax time! We get an in depth overview of how to properly account for expenses as a professional companion from the Companion Tax professional Mary Lee Miller. In addition to taxes, she discuss savings, investing, and why it’s important to have a plan! This is a very informative episode, so don’t forget your pen and notepad!
Femme Fatale of the Week: Olivia Leon
He runs a high-end escort service – and the government has a problem with his taxes
Former US Law student who became escort pleads guilty to tax evasion
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Shoeboxed.com
Spendingtracker
Mile IQ
Safeoffice.com
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Episode 06: Conducting Yourself As A High-End Companion; The Do’s and The Don’ts
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Chantel and Vivian gives tips and advice on becoming a high-end companion, answers fan mail, and read a client’s advice. Also, they share the story of a sugar momma, and how a good arrangement turns bad.
Femme Fatale of the Week: Sasha Benjamin
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Episode 05, Part 2: Conversations With A High-End Companion
In part 2 of this episode, the ladies have candid conversation with this weeks Femme Fatale, the infamous Amy Taylor. This accomplished print model gives her thoughts on FOSTA and an insight into her world. This is an episode you don’t want to miss!
Episode 5, Part 1: FOSTA/SESTA – The Bill That Could Disrupt The Escort Industry
Femme Fatale of the Week: Amy Taylor
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Episode 05, Part 1: FOSTA/SESTA – The Bill That Could Disrupt The Escort Industry
In part 1 of this emotionally charged episode, the ladies discuss the controversial FOSTA and SESTA bills that recently made it through the senate, what this means for victims of sex trafficking, and sex workers. They also discuss the documentary I Am Jane Doe, the reason this bill was started.
Femme Fatale of the week: Amy Taylor (featured in part 2)
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House Passes Anti-Online Sex Trafficking Bill, Allows Targeting of Websites Like Backpage.com
H.R. 1865 – Allow States and Victims to Fight Online Sex Trafficking Act 2017
FOSTA Backlash: How The Anti-Sex Trafficking Bill Could Harm Sex Workers
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(WASHINGTON POST, FEB 27: House passes anti-online sex trafficking bill, allows targeting of websites like Backpage.com)
The House of Representatives passed a bill Tuesday (The proposed law, titled “Allow States and Victims to Fight Online Sex Trafficking Act of 2017” or “FOSTA,” that gives prosecutors, state attorneys general and sex trafficking victims a clearer route to pursue legal action against websites hosting advertisements for prostitutes, which advocates have long argued are a hive for trafficking children). The final vote in the House was 388-25 – THAT’S CRAZY!!!
The bill now goes to the Senate, which already has passed a similar version out of committee. If approved, it would go to the White House, where supporters are hopeful that President Trump will sign it. This Bill is pretty much a witch hunt for Backpage; they are desperately trying to shut them down but this will not go down without a fight. Representative Wagner begs to differ though and I quote “This is a landmark piece of legislation. This is not just about Backpage. There are hundreds of others out there that are much worse. They’ve got to be brought down also.”
VIVIAN: But let’s start from the very beginning…how did this all come to be? There is a movie out now called “I am Jane Doe”…this movie is based on the true story, starting in 2009, of 2 mothers whose 13 and 15 year old girls were lured away by sex traffickers. They found their daughters online on backpage and they both sued backpage but their cases got dismissed because of the CDA 230 (a federal law that prevents websites, blogs, and forums from being held responsible for the speech of their users) .This has now become a movement against sex trafficking.
Here are some quotes from the movie:
- Backpage has 80% of the market for online sex ads and are in 80 countries.
- $8 out of ever $10 spent on online sex ads goes to backpage. So perhaps they are going after the “big fish” and making an example out of backpage so that other online venues would close up shop?
- In October 2010, craigslist shut down its adult section and backpage’s popularity sky rocketed. The movie quotes backpage as being the “Walmart of human trafficking”.
- Apparently, the sex traffickers spoke in codes using emojis, for example, an umbrella means NO CONDOM. And here I was just thinking these girls were just trying to draw attention to themselves. I always wondered why they used so many emoji’s on there. It’s overwhelming.
- 1 out of 7 men admit to buying illegal commercial sex. They are older, white, and live in the suburbs. They’re not the ones you would expect”.
- In 2014, back page made $134 Million and then sold it’s interest to a Dutch company, or so they said.
- In 2015 the net revenue was $153 Million! I always knew they were cleaning up, I just wasn’t sure just how much. Now we know. I believe is the main reason backpage is being used as the scapegoat.
- The movie also states that pimps usually go after the runaways, the children with low self esteem, etc.
In June of 2015, Cook County, IL Sheriff, Thomas J Dart sent a cease and desist letter to Visa and MasterCard citing that they were doing business with a criminal organization. That was when backpage decided to offer free ads and you could pay for upgrades with a personal check. Remember?
Backpage then sues the sheriff and the accusation in this movie is that backpage knows about the sex trafficking and chooses to do nothing about it. They believe that backpage coaches pimps on how to safely post an ad so as not to get flagged by L.E. They feel that the customers base are men looking to have sex with children. They even went as far as saying that backpage is actually in the pimping business posing as a publisher.
They also believed that the reason why the cases kept getting dismissed in favor of backpage, was because the judges were all men. The movie painted anyone who wasn’t actively fighting against backpage, as supporters of sex trafficking which is absurd.
In November of 2015, the lawyers of the moms some how discover that one of the original owners of backpage, James Larkin, was still actively involved in the company when a letter was sent from HR through another company he owned. They were then able to drum up charges against the CEO, Carl Ferrer, and the original owners, James Larkin andMichael Lacy
In Feb 2016, the senate sub committee ruled that backpage was in contempt because Ferrer didn’t show up for a subpoena hearing.
October 2016 backpage is raided and Ferrer, Larkin, and Lacy are all arrested within 4 days of each other on pimping related charges.
The men argue that the charges violate section 230 and the judge dismisses the case.
What I don’t understand is why we are not going after the root of the problem? The moms pose the question to the owners of the website and the people watching. “What would you do if it were your child that was the victim of sex trafficking?” We can answer this when I’m done giving you all the details.
Many Internet companies initially opposed any alteration of the Communications Decency Act, saying it would open them up to lawsuits for content they weren’t aware of or involved in. But many of the big Internet players dropped their opposition in recent months and are now in full support: FACEBOOK, IBM, Oracle and Hewlett Packard Enterprise.
The 2 main companies that rally on behalf of the tech companies for free speech are the Electronic Frontier Foundation and the Center for Democracy and Technology. Google and some other top technology companies donate to these organizations and are painted by the movie as supporters of sex trafficking and backpage.
Evan Engstrom, executive director of Engine, an advocacy group for Internet start-ups, even says and I quote “you’re creating a situation that may end up harming efforts to stop human trafficking. It creates potential legal liability for knowingly facilitating trafficking. The definition of knowledge is complicated,” and material can be posted on websites without hosts’ knowledge. If you don’t know, you probably shouldn’t be held liable.”
On Jan 2017 backpage shuts down the adult section. The movie claims that it is just a publicity stunt. They claim that the ONLY way to stop sex trafficking is by changing the law (sec 230) which is how FOSTA/SESTA came into fruition. Because we all know that laws ALWAYS stop criminals from committing crimes right?
Missouri Representative Ann Wagner filed FOSTA last April which passed on Feb 27, 2017 with an overwhelming number of supporting votes.
Ohio Senator Rob Portman filed a version in the Senate, called the “Stop Enabling Sex Traffickers Act,” or “SESTA,” last August which was to be decided March 12, 2018, but got moved to March, 19 2018.
Vivian: They seem to forget that the United States is not the only country in the world. Shutting down backpage will only open the door for smarter “criminal websites”. I say get to the root of the problem. Kill all men! Because blaming a website for your daughter being trafficked is silly. We need to start at home and start talking to our kids. Build and lift them up so that they are not prey for pimps.
But before everyone starts panicking, I just want to state the fact that Federal laws generally apply to people living in the United Statesand its territories. Congress creates and passes bills. The President then signs those bills into law. Federal courts may review these laws and strike them down if they think they do not agree with the U.S. Constitution!
So this isn’t final yet, hang in there ladies!
Episode 04: How To Successfully Book An Escort In America
How To Successfully Book An Escort In America
On ‘How To Successfully Book An Escort In America’ The ladies gives the do’s and dont’s on how to succesfully book an escort. They finally tell the story of the night they met and the hilarious adventures that followed. Also discussed, Chantel’s obsession with Shark Tank, Vivian’s date ideas, relevant news, and much more!
Femme Fatale of the Week: Grace Evangeline
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Episode 03: Why Escorts Screen
Why Escorts Screen
Why do escorts screen? In this episode the ladies list the most important reasons why escorts screen for their safety. It’s important for clients to understand that screening is necessary to keep escorts and their clients safe. The ladies make their big annoucement, discuss the controversial topic of being a sugar baby, answer fan questions, and gives tips on safety.
Femme Fatale: Breya Lynn
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Man Accused of Robbing Escorts at Gunpoint in Miami Gardens
**Sorry for the depressing stories but it’s important for ladies to stay safe!**
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Episode 02: Clients Are More Romantic Than You Think!
Clients Are More Romantic Than You Think!
Clients are more romantic than you think, and Vivian and Chantel tells you how as they record episode 2 together from Vivian’s bed in Miami, while giving another reason why you should book an escort and other helpful tips. They also discuss Chantel’s latest photoshoot, Vivian’s upcoming tour to Nashville, TN, and lawmakers getting caught with their pants down!
Femme Fatale of the Week: Ava St. Claire
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Anti-Hooker Lawmaker Allegedly Used Taxpayer Money for Sex with Escort
Next Episode: Why Escorts Screen
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Episode 01: Intro Into the World of the High-End Call Girl
Intro Into the World of the High-End Call Girl
On this episode we get an introduction to the hosts, the reasons they started the podcast, and a look inside their world (the fabulous world of the high-end call girl). They also discuss the eros raid and give clients some helpful tips.
Femme Fatale of the Week: Ashley Paige
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Eros.com Still Lives, But Homeland Security Raid Has Sex Workers Worried
The Eros Raid Means None of Us Are Safe
Why You Should Be Concerned About the Recent Eros.com Raid
The Eros Call Center Is Raided and Another Advertising Board Is Down
Analysis On The Eros Guide Raid
Eros Was Raided By Homeland Security
Dept of Homeland Security Fux With Sex Workers AGAIN! Eros Guide Raided
Backpage Raided, CEO Arrested On Sex-Trafficking Charges
Florida Police Arrest 277, Including Cops and Doctors, In Sex Sting
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- Episode 119 - 2024 Wrapped / News / Where to Find Escorts in 2025 December 25, 2024Farewell to 2024: Gratitude, Growth, and Progress In this final episode of the year, Vivian extends heartfelt thanks to the show’s devoted listeners and generous sponsors, reflecting on the incredible journey of 2024. She shares highlights from Spotify's Wrapped, revealing impressive growth as the podcast continues to reach and inspire a wider audience. Vivian then […]
- Episode 118 - The Modern Day Escort: Featuring Mia Lee October 2, 2024In this episode, Vivian welcomes Mia Lee, a former Wall Street insider turned escort, for an eye-opening conversation. Mia shares her remarkable journey, revealing the surprising parallels between her start in high-stakes finance, where she worked long hours to survive, and how it is no different from survival sex work. Together, they delve into Mia’s […]
- Episode 117 - Breaking News: Backpage Founders Sentenced September 4, 2024In today’s episode of ‘TSEGP What’s in the News’, Vivian examines the long-awaited sentencing of the three Backpage founders: Michael Lacey, Scott Spear, and John “Jed” Brunst. Now in their 70s, these men have been sentenced to prison terms ranging from five to ten years, with an additional three years of supervised release. They have […]
- Episode 116 - Conversation With A Miami Dominatrix (Mistress Mona) June 12, 2024In this kinky and enlightening episode, Vivian engages in a fascinating conversation with Miami Dominatrix Mistress Mona, the esteemed owner of South Florida's premier professional dungeon. Join them as they delve into the journey of becoming a dominatrix, and explore the challenges of navigating envy and safeguarding one's reputation and livelihood. With her extensive experience […]
- Episode 115 - Making Bank and Getting Doxxed: The Dual Reality of Escorts May 1, 2024In this captivating episode, Vivian is once again joined by the enchanting Tiffany Elease, straight from the vibrant streets of Amsterdam. The duo delves into a riveting news article detailing an escort's astonishing claim of raking in $34,000 in a single week from Wall Street's elite. But is this extraordinary feat a common reality for […]
- Episode 114 - Exposed! Police Officer Caught in Prostitution Scandal! March 6, 2024Get ready to sip some tea as we dive into the scandalous nature of law enforcement in today's episode of The Sexy Escort Guide Podcast! Vivian serves up the tea on a jaw-dropping news story: a police officer caught red-handed soliciting prostitution. Talk about karma coming back to bite! But that's not all – tune in […]
- Episode 113 - New Year, New IRS Rule: Unpacking the Corporate Transparency Act January 3, 2024In this informative episode, Vivian reunites with Eric Polacek from Companion Tax and Accounting Services, our esteemed Diamond sponsor. Dive deep as they unravel the IRS's groundbreaking Corporate Transparency Act set to shake the landscape in 2024. Eric masterfully deciphers the implications for entrepreneurs in sensitive sectors like the escort industry, spotlighting the intricate balance between […]
- Episode 112 - Taboo! Romance Between Escorts and Clients December 20, 2023In this controversial episode, Dr. Julie K, a seasoned Doctor of Psychology, returns for the third time to delve into the intriguing topic of clients and escorts falling for each other, and what to do if this ever happens to you. Uncover the surprising frequency of this phenomenon in our industry and explore the complexities […]
- Episode 111 - The Global Fight Against Violence Targeting Sex Workers December 6, 2023Join us in this powerful episode as we commemorate the 20th anniversary of the International Day to End Violence Against Sex Workers on December 17th, 2023. Vivian, engages in a heartfelt conversation with the remarkable Ms. Alex Andrews, Co-Founder of SWOP Behind Bars. Dive into Alex's personal journey navigating consensual sex work under criminalization and […]
- Episode 110 - Breaking: Boston Brothel Bust Exposes Asian Kingpins, But Guess Who Walks Free? November 15, 2023Step into the latest scandalous escort news story with Vivian as she welcomes fellow podcaster, Ms. Ellis Hendrix. Together, they unravel the shocking tale of the Trio Behind Boston’s Illegal Brothel facing arrest, leaving clients and the brothel’s escorts to slip through the cracks of justice. But that's not all! Dive into an intimate Q&A […]
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